The Fear of Being Replaced- Why Using Sex Toys isn't a Competition

The Fear of Being Replaced- Why Using Sex Toys isn't a Competition

 

One of the initial reactions and misconceptions that come from men who have never used sex toys with their partner are:

Why would I use those?
My partner doesn't need anything more than me.
If I use sex toys then she won't need me anymore.
I can't compete with a machine.
Is she trying to tell me I suck in bed?
She's just going to f**k by herself now?

Unfortunately, These are common fears that need to be addressed.

Fortunately, all of these statements are purely insecurities, and hence do not reflect the truth about introducing sex toys into the bedroom.

Men, trust us when we say that your partner is not looking to make you doubt your sexual abilities by introducing a vibrator.
Nor is your partner trying to diminish the level of satisfaction that they feel during intercourse or trying to replace you with a machine. Your partner is courageously opening-up the door to new possibilities of sexual pleasure within your relationship.

The plain truth is this: most women need more than penetration to achieve an orgasm...

It has been a more popular topic as of late, the so called- closing the orgasm gap.

All this means is that yes, women wish to experience orgasms as much as men do. Unfortunately, most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve this climax. There are simply different things a high vibrating machine can make you experience, that your typical intercourse cannot—different levels of intensity that cannot be recreated with your own fingers.

What should you do if you are feeling intimidated by the prospect of having your partner introduce a new sex toy?

You could ask to watch your partner use it. Doing this will allow you see how your partner enjoys being touched. The act of witnessing your partner pleasuring themselves in front of you is certainly going to arouse you.

You could ask to try the sex toy yourself. Many vibrators not only feel good for the woman, but they also provide men with extra pleasure as well.

If you are feeling a penis-inferior complex because of the mention vibrator—don't. Vibrators no longer look like the old school replica of a giant dick. They now resemble cute little,silky soft vibrating beasts of pleasure. No need to think your shaft isn't up to par— it's really not a competition but an exquisite addition to pleasurably sex.

It's been said that introducing sex toys brings couples closer together in and out of the bedroom. Why is that? because it opens up the communication aspect of intimacy; which in turn means better quality of sex...

Translation—Happier people...

And if you're not quite comfortable with having a vibrator near you at first, you could always give the cock ring a try— TickleTrunkClub includes one in their sex toy kit (grab a trunk for yourself)

So, introduce sex toys into your relationship and witness the elevation of pleasure and connection...

You'll feel like a badass ;)

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